For the past few mornings before he goes to work, my boyfriend has been taking a male performance enhancement pill that is supposed to make his erection harder and last longer. ( he keeps the pills in his drawer and didnt tell me he started taking them )The problem is when i try to make love to him, he is to tired, has a headache or his back hurts. Yet, he watches porn when i am not around and masturbates. My feelings are hurt and he tell me that i am being stupid and insecure. Am I? Would this bother anyone else?
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To Hades……..it surely would bother me!
Kick him to the flipping curb, you do NOT need that crap!
It sounds to me… like he is just interested in his own needs and not what you need.
PORN is taking over him, and his masturbating does not help.
If that is all that he wants…then you need to find somebody who wants YOU!
Do you know what you deserve?
To be treated special, to have someone want to come home and hold you and love you!
If he is NOT the one to give you these things….
Then you go and find someone who is!
I wish you all the luck in the world and hope you find someone to love you!
Blessings from the WOLF
ok this guy is your bf not your husband right? I would tell him straight up that you want and deserve an answer. That you feel this is serious and you are having a hard time trusting him. You aren’t stupid. Ask him why he’s taking those pills but won’t have sex with you. Who is he taking them for? Ask him what you both can do together to make your sex life better. Is there something that you are doing that he doesn’t like? What can you do to better? Let him know that you aren’t backing down from this conversation and if you guys don’t talk about this and work it out then the relationship is over. If he is sleeping with someone else that is not only disrespectful to you but dangerous to your health.
i would feel extremely upset also..confront him tell him your not insecure your just upset
Well its just retarded to waste your money on pills and let them go to waste.
You have a right to be angry, yes.
Is it possible that he is having some erection problems? The question you need 2 find out is porn a substitute or an aid for him 2 try 2 get aroused/and or erect. I don’t know why he would be taking a enhancement pill to have sex with himself? That doesn’t make sense. Sounds like he is having some sexual issues. Where medical reason and not in his control or physical reason, say being addicted to porn. Or some other paraphillia. U need 2 be supportive to get to the bottom of this is it is worth saving, but if he wouldn’t talk or it’s not worth it bail out now. Don’t for get to be open to what he says and find out if there is somehting your not doing or could do better. DON”T sell your self out either, only do what you are confrotable with.
hmmm..my boyfriend does the same exact thing. maybe they are gay. i wish i had the answer to help us out but i am hurt too. i know he watches porn on the web. He always has an excuse too. let me know if you find the answer.